Some (many??) of us have an erotic charge from the topic of spanking. For men, it may mean an erection while thinking about being spanked, viewing spanking pictures, reading spanking literature, or spanking your partner. For women, the same applies, but I imagine it would best be described as a warm glow of moisture in their pussy.
Sadly, spankos I think never have as much spanking as they wish, but are grateful for every spanking adventure.
Thus, I have found I have to ask at times, to be spanked!
Personally, I have moved beyond my deliberately doing something that would get me spanked. However, having senior moments (throughout my life, not just now), I do things that result quickly in a spanking, but it is definitely unplanned on my part.
Thus, at times, I either ask for a spanking, or send a private email for Cindy to consider and spank when she has the inclination to spank me. (Many times, we are simply doing good boy spankings)
Do you occasionally or often have the same experience?