The Great Outdoors

One fabulous feature of spanking is that you can do it outdoors!

Of course, it does take a little bit of bravery the first time!

but then you can enhance the anytime any place idea

Really, you can simply walk outside with your paddle and put it to good use

You can simply pull off the road and spank him

a boat is delightful, with waves just right his bottom will rise for every spank

stop anywhere, whether on a trail bench, or on somelogs

and really, if friends drop by and he misbehaves have them watch his comeuppance, or even join in

or you can even hold him in place for your friend he insulted spanks him,

while whispering in his ear that he can expect another more severe spanking as soon as they are home!

Have you ever spanked or been spanked outdoors?

Share one occasion with our readers!

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The thought of every young man is being naked with two women making love with him.

(Political correct version would be MANY not every)

If he were to suggest this to his wife, naming a friend of hers who might be interested, the outcome is pre-ordained! She would have a chat with the woman before the get together!

not the threesome he imagined

Women do talk to each other, so she might also be a spanking wife!

I think her friend is enjoying having a part of his being spanked

and, once word gets around that he is spanked whenever he misbehaves

and not only will they spank him when needed, but also they will tell his wife why they spanked him, so that she can reinforce their decision with another spanking immediately.

similar to paddled at school, spanked when you get home

How times HAVE CHANGED! Many readers now fantasize about being spanked by their wife and another woman. I know I do! DO YOU?

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PS: Men never change


Happy Thanksgiving

It is always nice to wish everyone a happy day, so whether you celebrate Thanksgiving in your country today, or at another time, I wish you a happy day.

Do those things that make you happy!

Maybe a hike in the forest will bring a little color into your life

Beware: A family get together sometimes leads to excessive drinking and being argumentative! Your wife might ask you to join her upstairs for a moment to help her with a problem!

Do not worry if family see what your wife is holding, they will certainly hear the behavior being changed!

Plus, if they already know you are spanked, they might simply think it is part of the entertainment!

and just continue making the family dinner!

Happy Thanksgiving

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The mighty kitchen wood

If you are spanked, I am certain that at some time you have been spanked by a wooden kitchen implement, and you bared your bottom for it’s use in the kitchen! If you are the spanker, you probably have done the above to your spankee also.

The look is always followed by bare your bottom in our household!

Personally, when we are in a mode of spanking frequently, as opposed to a non-spanking drought, this is certain to happen a few times during the week.

It is a simple statement of bare your bottom and bend over!

But sometimes, it can be more severe, if a chair is pulled out for Cindy to sit on.

or, come with me, and the spanking is taken to another room for Cindy to be comfortable while spanking me.

afterwards, this does not happen, but it would be effective!

We actually have a soup stirrer which is massively effective, without bruising that a heavy large wooden soup spoon would do. We have one that has been used, but very very infrequently. It bruises if used for any length of time.

Have you been spanked with a wooden implement in the kitchen?

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Hand on the Hip

A hint that you better comply instantly with whatever your wife(partner) is saying, is the expression you see on her face, and the body language involved.

you will be SPANKED!

OF course, with one hand on her hip, the other hand might also show you a hint at your fate!

Which one of these following ladies would you like to be giving you your spanking, with no choice of implement, because she has already decided that for you?

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My choices in no special order would be 1, 3, 11, and 18


Love our Lifestyle (LOL)

Love our Lurkers has become Love Our Lifestyle. Hermione thought up the change, and has been the organizer of LOL for many years, taking over from Bonnie. You can visit their sites by clicking on their name. I started blogging a very long time ago when Bonnie started. http://www.spankedhubby.blogspot only has a small portion of the original posts, then which was terminated by Google.

“Whether you engage in spanking on a regular basis, just once in a while, or only think about it, you are here because spanking interests you in some way. I like to think of my readers and fellow bloggers as one big, extended family of like-minded individuals. So I invite everyone, whether they blog or not, to get together and say “hello” to each of the bloggers they visit.”

So, drop by some sites and say hello, and click on their links to any other you might find interesting.

The problems of the world will always be there, but we won’t be. So, lighten up, and find something every day that brings joy into your life.

If your kink involves spanking, hopefully you have a compatible partner who is willing to help you. By this, my thought is you desire to be spanked. It must be consensual, and it CANNOT be that one person’s kink is to only be the spanker. That sounds like abuse to me, unless the spankee also expresses the desire to be spanked, and controls the severity within general guidelines!

easy way to be spanked

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Always remember to smile!


10 fully vaccinated NHL hockey players get covid on ONE TEAM!

A NHL team has 20 players!

We are isolating from most activities until we get the third vaccine dose.

Sadly, if you think you are truly protected by two doses, you are, but may still get covid. Six months after your last dose, you are left with NO antibodies. You have some protection via T cells being generated, but not a lot. The probable outcome is that you will not need to be hospitalized, and most likely will not die. Think of the booster as having to have a tune-up on your car, but the timeline is every six months! If your car needed it, you would do it! Your life is worth more than your car!

The simple fact is most cases are among the unvaccinated, but as your immunity vanes, you may still catch it.

Ten out of twenty National Hockey league players on one team, all fully vaccinated, have Covid!

Think about that!

and, if you read the above, here is some humor to help you through the day.

but also expect political commentary

I am really enjoying more than just the spanking and massive amounts of porn on Tumblr. I know I need humor, as being old(ISH), I have little to do when November comes around. Previously, we have been active traveling!

If you enjoyed the above, then click on the link below!

Why this tumblr is considered adult is beyond me, and truly sad that you have to scroll through so many posts to get to older ones.

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The almighty finger

How does your partner let you know it is time to get over their knees?

Cindy, when seated on the chair, simply looks at me knowingly, and I know to undress, then pats her knee, and I scamper across.

Anyone care to explain their ritual?

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Baring or being bared for a spanking!

Which camp is your spanker in! Does she like to bare your bottom before the spanking herself?

Or does the spanker require you to bare your bottom and wait to be spanked

Personally, Cindy tells me to bare my bottom!

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A spanker using her leg!

I cannot remember rolling off Cindy’s lap, but there is a good method to assure you stay over her knees for the spanking.

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