Well, we are hunkered down in Canada, with the winter weather, restaurants, movie theatres closed, with little to do. So if you live in the southern USA near or on the coast, let me know what it is like, as we ponder driving south for a few months.
This post is eclectic.
Have you ever wondered what your reaction would have been if your partner gave you a truly hard spanking the first time you asked, if you would have enjoyed it. I must admit that I have and still sometimes top from the bottom. In the early days, I threw away implements that were frightening, and now wish I had kept them!
Your Thoughts?
Sadly, we have never reached this stage of my crying, as Cindy stops before we reach that stage. Cindy has reached the stage where I have moist eyes, with a tear in each, but the spanking stopped.
Do you ever reach the stage of crying?
and now some humor
Red
Consensual Spanking second edition 
I don’t always reach the stage of crying during a spanking. While the pain contributes to tears, it is often the feeling of contrition that accompanies a stern lecture that has me crying. But I relish the times that I do cry during a spanking. Such an emotional release. Great post! XOXO
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Thanks for sharing. I agree that the feeling of remorse during a lecture and during the spanking might trigger crying for me. The spanking alone might if it continues long enough!
bottoms up
red
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Same here. 15+ years of spanking and hoping to reach the point of real tears, it’s never actually happened.
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I would say we are also in 15+ years of spanking. Have been retired for 18 years and we started gradually after retirement started, at my request
bottoms up
red
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Crying actual tears from spanking, has never happened for me. Isolated corner time, afterwards, has got me blubbing like a baby sometimes.
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interesting. I would not have thought that would happen. Thanks for sharing
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red
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Outright crying? That hasn’t happened, but misty-eyed and pretty dang vocal about what’s happening on my South 40? Definitely hairbrush country…
Haven’t destroyed any implements, yet. But I have have kicked myself for buying that Vermont Country Store brush a few times. For most Spanko’s, particularly us guys, getting on the same page as to how ‘firm’ a spanking is needed simply takes a lot of time and a lot of trust.
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txdwcr: We have the Vermont Country Store bath brush, and it perfectly suits Cindy and my needs. It does pack a wallop, but that is needed. totally agree with your last statement
bottoms up
Red
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It took a while, but now husband always cries when I discipline him.
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must be quite a spanking you give, including the lecture and making him feel guilty. Sheer strength does not in and of itself cause a person to cry, in my opinion. Length of spanking, regret, and severity are probably the keys.
bottoms up
Red
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