Thoughts on consensual spanking

  1. No spanking should ever be rushed. It is a teaching moment for him to learn of his mistake, and atoning for the mistake.

2. When told you need to be spanked, these two captions should be obvious. This might be as soon as we are home, or if already at home, then it means NOW!

3. If ever an argument should ever happen, he must be spanked ASAP!

4. Men learn best by a weekly reminder about their responsibilities (I wish Cindy did this)

Consensual spanking works best if the above ideas are a part of the agreement for the couple. Every man should remember that being spanked means another one will happen very soon, if his behavior merits it.

bottoms up

Red

8 thoughts on “Thoughts on consensual spanking”

  1. Sorry, Red, but I strongly disagree with points 2, 3, and 4, with point #2 being a pretty vehement objection. I think points 3 & 4 are ok for some but definitely not the hard-and-fast assertion that would apply to everyone and certainly not for Rosa and me. ( To clarify, I just did another cocktail post, based on my very positive reaction to a recipe a friend suggested. Because I liked it so much I shared it, but imagine if my personal zeal for this drink led me to not just offer it up as a possibility, but kind of insist that this is the drink everyone should drink? )

    I’ve been at this ‘spanking game’ long enough to know there are all sorts of people out there. For me personally? If Rosa was vehement about #2, we’d end up divorced………….which I think is not the goal of adopting an alternate lifestyle approach to marriage.

    On a lighter more positive note…..the sandcastle meme was fucking priceless!!!!!! 😉

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    1. Hi KDPierre:
      I agree with you, that their are times when Cindy has said you need to be spanked, and it did not happen, as we needed to talk out things. Please take everything you read here with a grain of salt, but I would prefer a glass of wine.
      Every couple is different, and that is the beauty of spanking being an activity that everyone can consent to a certain level of involvement.
      bottoms up
      Red

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    1. well put. it is very wonderful, but the partner being wonderful is far more important. We dabble in spankings, and go hot and heavy for a few days, then long stretches where I have to ask!
      bottoms up
      Red

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    1. it was just a beginning of a post, so I mistakenly put it to post in the future, rather than make it a draft. It will return someday, and thank you for such excellent advice about wordpress
      bottoms up
      Red

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